HOLY SHIT

August 29th, 2008

O……….M…………F………..G.

I found my first “serious” boyfriend on Facebook.

Mind you, this isn’t necessarily a good thing. We were together for two years, from age 15 to 17, and he was a very, very, VERY bad boy. So bad, that when I broke up with him, he stalked me and threatened my mom and my friends; I ended up getting a restraining order against him, and it turned into this huge, frightening ordeal. Of course, that was fifteen years ago, and from his Facebook profile, it looks like he may have straightened out, gone to college, etc. But still…

It seems like such a long time ago — forever, even. And, in retrospect, it wasn’t really love, at least not in the mature, adult sense. But, wow, does this bring back memories. Plus, he’ll always have a special place in my heart because he was my first for almost everything — my first “love,” my first sexual experience, my first break-up (my first stalker… heh). To this day, certain smells remind me of him and take me right back to that time in my life.

You know, honestly, I’d figured that, by now, he was either dead or in jail. The fact that he’s alive and on Facebook is more than a little jarring. I’m actually a bit shaken. It’s so weird being confronted with a dark time in your past, even if it’s just in the form of a photo on an online profile.

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2 Responses to “HOLY SHIT”

  1. Alexander M Zoltai on August 29, 2008 8:03 am

    Holy Mother of Fatima !!!

    This sent my spine to shivering!

    Hope I don’t encounter that chick that kept a gun and actually showed me the paperwork on her mental instability!!

    Whew!!!

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